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This Womens'day- I want to say " Thank you, gentlemen"

I am a woman and I am thankful to the men in my life.
In my childhood a man used to save me from my strict mother and he was my Babai. Babai is someone who is my best friend.With him I shared each and everything.He knows all my secrets including my crushes,my heart breaks etc. Since childhood  he had been struggling to make me happy. May be today I shop branded clothes for myself but I remember since my childhood he has been choosing my dresses.He is still my fashion guru. We argue a lot... I remember how strongly he stood beside me against the society to support my each and every single decision. He was someone without him I can't imagine my life. Yes I am independent but without discussing with him,I can't take a single decision. When I am in crisis, I wonder how casually he makes everything so easy when he says- "There is nothing to worry about". Last year when he was hospitalised,I took that as a challenge to save him at any cost. Only I know how I spent every moment at that time but I was adamant. That night when he was hospitalised,I remember his hand was still on my head.
I want to say that I have seen the real God in you.

The next man in my life is a guy who left the whole world just for me. The person who kept his each and every promise. The person who made me feel that I am worthy. Both of him and Babai make me mad,mock at me for my weird fashion sense ,for my childish behaviour,weird plans etc. He is my husband and my best friend. Even he also knows about my all the secrets since childhood including my crushes. He goes to different places for his project works. He faces problem in case of food and all but he never told me to quit my job and come with him for his convenience. He supported my each and every dream. He held my hand in the toughest time. These were the "Men" who fought with the bad men who tried to disrespect me.These "Men" sacrificed for me. These "Men" love me.

Yes in this women's day I say - "Thank you to these two gentlemen of my life".

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